isiting and Engaging
matchmaker es to propose marriage
when men and women reach the age of marriage, their parents first find a matchmaker. whechmaker discovers that there is someone of appropriate age in the family, they first municate with their parents and then schedule a date te a blind date location, usually a market place. on the day of the market, both the man and the woman go to the designated location, take a look at each other, say a few words, and show their cheerful personality on the spot. Generally, they will return home and talk to the matchmaker. After agreeing, the man will choose a date fagement (we call it dingshi there). there is also a type that is favored by oneself or by parents, such as cousins. If they are related, parents will entrust an acquaintao act as a matchmaker. In the 1960s and 1970s, many cousins got married in rural areas, and the third representative of siblings getting married was more. this is called \"new relatives getting married with old relatives\", which is even more joyful, but this kind of close relatives getting married is still not good.
the e requires four kinds of gifts, that is, a few pieces of cloth. det families will use da and da fabriylon socks, and those with poor eiditions will use khaki cloth and cotton socks. In this way, even if the e is successful, the man go to the woman's home and send some gifts to the woman's home for the New Year holiday. Generally, the four kinds of gifts are the same, namely, the beginning of Summer Festival, the dragon boat Festival, the mid-Autumival and the Spriival. meat, eggs, noodles And a piec